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  • AboutWhy The Power And Control Wheel, when everybody else is talking about Parental Alienation
    • About PACWAbout this website, the Power and Control Wheel
    • About The CoachAbout Kevin Webb, founder of this website. Somatic Trauma Informed Coach
  • Your SituationWhat is your situation?
    • Alienated Parent
    • Alienated GrandparentSupport and a chat to help grandparents who are alienated from their grandchildren and estranged from their own adult children
    • Alienated Adult ChildSupport for alienated adult children in UK and International
    • Communal Narcissist Abuse SurvivorSupport for survivors of communal narcissist
    • Intimate Partner Abuse SurvivorNarcissistic Abuse survivor in an intimate relationship
    • Spiritual Abuse SurvivorSupport for spiritual abuse and toxic faith community survivors
    • Institutional & Workplace Abuse Victim
    • The Family ScapegoatHelpline support for family scapegoats in the UK
  • SupportSupport Services available for alienated parents and narcissistic abuse victims – domestic abuse, workplace abuse, family scapegoating abuse, alienated adult child
    • Clarity CallChat helpline service booking available for alienated parents, narcissistic abuse, family scapegoat, workplace abuse victims, domestic abuse
    • CoachingBook educational talk support and coaching to survive and rebuild after parental alienation and narcissistic abuse, workplace abuse, family scapegoat abuse
  • LearnSelf support to help you from victim to recovery, to regaining your life and agency, rebuilding your life, coming home to ‘you’
    • FAQFind answers to questions on narcissistic abuse, parental alienation, family scapegoat abuse, domestic abuse, workplace abuse
    • The WheelThe Power and Control Wheel — how coercive control works across every relationship and context.
  • BlogLatest research and information on parental alienation and narcissistic abuse
  • Why Can’t I Leave My Partner — And Why That Question Makes Complete Sense

    Why Can’t I Leave My Partner — And Why That Question Makes Complete Sense

    May 11, 2026
    Narcissistic Abuse

    You know something is wrong. You can’t explain it to anyone. You can’t leave — or you left and you can’t stop thinking about going back. And you don’t recognise yourself anymore. This is what is actually happening, why it…

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  • The Fake Friend Everyone Thinks Is Wonderful

    The Fake Friend Everyone Thinks Is Wonderful

    May 11, 2026
    Narcissistic Abuse

    You didn’t let a bad person in. You let in someone who looked like exactly the kind of person you respect — generous, well-liked, always doing the right thing publicly. This is what communal narcissism looks like in a real…

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  • Alienated From My Parent as a Child — and Still Carrying It as an Adult

    Alienated From My Parent as a Child — and Still Carrying It as an Adult

    May 11, 2026
    Alienated Child, Parental Alienation

    If you were alienated from your parent as a child, the impact doesn’t stay in childhood. It shapes your relationships, your trust, your sense of self — often without a name for what happened. There is support that understands this…

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    False Allegations, Non-Molestation Orders, and Parental Alienation: What UK Parents Need to Know
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    Adverse Childhood Experiences and Emotional Abuse: From World War II to Narcissistic Parenting Today
  • setting boundaries
    Why Boundaries Matter in Somatic Trauma-Informed Coaching

ABOUT THE PRACTITIONER

✓ Samaritans trained
✓ Enhanced DBS checked
✓ Qualified Teacher Status (QTS)
✓ MEd.L Educational Leadership & Management
✓ Registered DWP Provider
✓ CMI Member
✓ National EU Funds Award Winner

IMPORTANT INFORMATION

DISCLAIMER: This website provides somatic trauma-informed coaching and education by a trained Somatic Trauma-Informed coach. It is not therapy, counselling, or clinical treatment, and is not a substitute for professional mental health, medical, or legal advice. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please contact a qualified professional or emergency services.

The word “recovery” is used on this site in its everyday sense — moving forward, rebuilding, and regaining a sense of self. It does not refer to clinical recovery or imply medical or therapeutic treatment of any kind.

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