Educational Support and Awareness for the trauma of Narcissist Abuse and Parental Alienation

Hi. I’m Kevin Webb, a Trainee Trauma Informed Narcissistic Abuse Coach. With an extensive award-winning Teaching and self-employment career, and a Masters degree in Education, I strive to educate you in narcissistic abuse and support narcissistic abuse survivors and victims of parental alienation behaviours. I’m here to also raise awareness, to help change the UK law, and to help you survive the insanity of narcissistic abuse, domestic abuse, workplace abuse, parental alienation, family scapegoating abuse. This is about Power and Control.

I’ve helped hundreds of people through educational ‘Talk’ Support in person and online during this time, and since 2012. Whilst doing this, I led and trained the County Hosts who also gave their time freely to run sessions in their counties. After resigning my position to protect myself, I’m delighted to be able to continue my work in changing the Gov UK law, and giving support for narcissistic abuse victims – you as an alienated parent also – in the same way.

I passionately continue to raise awareness of narcissistic abuse, give talks, and help those affected through work, family, partnerships and friendships. It’s an honour to now be independently helping others desperately in need, those experiencing parental alienation and the wider aspects of domestic and narcissistic abuse (ref. the non-gendered version of the Power And Control Wheel). ‘Gender’ ideology and ‘Male Privilege’ rhetoric are not welcome here.

My faith is most important for me. Jesus Christ saved me from narcissistic abuse and opened my eyes to these wolves in sheep’s clothing, the powers and principalities.  I pray that you’ll explore why people like myself, having gone through this terrible abuse, have turned to the Bible to find the answers. I recognize Narcissistic Abuse to be directly linked to the Jezebel spirit.

This is a spiritual battle, as well as a psychological one.

Who is Kevin Webb (aka Jack Goodings)?

VIDEO – ‘BECOMING JACK GOODINGS’

I’m an alienated adult child, lost my entire paternal side of my family when I was seven years old. It impacted me deeply from then on, shaping my life choices – not all healthy. I was my mum’s ragdoll, a mixture of golden child and scapegoat. I know this dynamic very well. Mum died Christmas Day 2020. Last words to me – two fingers up, both hands, laughter. I’m ok with that now, I ‘get’ it.

VIDEO – ‘ERASING A GENEALOGY’

2007, the post-relationship alienation started. 2012 entered a malignant narcissist. In 2017, I started learning and recovering from serious narcissistic abuse and helping others. I’m from the Narcissistic Abuse community, not the Parental Alienation community – PA is Narcissistic Abuse. In 2020 my world crumbled into reality with the final wake-up – realizing my step-dad had been covertly breaking my mum down, finally trying to kill her when she had dementia. Unaware, I was to be the replacement. I’d been spiritually and psychologically attacked, the ‘dark’ ones have made themselves known to me, God has reached out to me, several spiritual interventions – and now I ‘see’ narcissists. You cannot experience this level of narcissistic abuse without knowing evil is real, and therefore God is real.

It’s essential we don’t fall into their dark ways, their sin – keep the light. When you know – you MUST go! No longer feed your pearls to the swine. If you play in a pig pen, the pigs will love it and you’ll get mucky and injured. “Have nothing to do with these people”.

In January 2024, I gave up my 30 year Teaching career and home to help others recover from parental alienation abuse through the charity. I co-organized the Parental Alienation Conference at Brent Knoll, Somerset in April 2024, bringing alienated parents and extended family together from all parts of the UK. I’m the one who gave ‘The Speech‘ about parental alienation, and the one who injected life back into the Charity and the country’s drive to bring this community group together and help others like you, your partner and your extended family.

I’m the one who created and set up the UK county support network for in-person and online support for Parental Alienation Awareness – that was me. I developed the Host Guide for ‘safe spaces’. I worked on the UK Helpline to help alienated parents survive another day. I tried to warn the Hosts of the dangers and reality of narcissists within the ‘parental alienation’ community. To affect change, I met with groups across the country and held presentations to raise awareness of the abuse and trauma, forming community connections along the way. DWP presentations were supported by three other alienated parents. Interviewed internationally by other parental alienation and domestic abuse advocates. These include Maryann Petri, Slam The Gavel and Mary Auld Kovacs podcasts.

Prior to this, I received the EU National Winner Award in 2017 for making the most progress with unemployed, people struggling (All About Guitars). The whole time personally experiencing this insidious form of domestic abuse, the gang stalking, the homelessness and crippling financial destitution, the breakdowns, the suicide ideation (we all experience that). I won’t let them stop me.

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I have recovered from parental alienation and narcissistic abuse. I rebuilt – and reconnected with my children, through the help of the good Lord Jesus. I’m not one to be quiet – I speak out on injustice, protect victims of narcissistic abuse, and stand for what is right and true, regardless the consequences. Because my ‘safeguarded’ identity was compromised, I can no longer protect myself using ‘Jack Goodings’. So I’ll do the unexpected, I’ve rebuilt again, and am using my real name, Kevin Webb. I’m now free to actively speak out and help you even more.

I’ve shared all this with my son, who had suffered from this parental obstruction. Yes, I now have a wonderful relation ship with him – and yes, my name is on his birth certificate (there are some who are not, yet they fight for years to gain access). My son, he’s been amazing! And I’ve fallen in love with him all over again, with the man that he’s become.

Thank you to those who have given time to question and realize the truth. There are not many of you – but there never are, are there. When you have narcissist abuse in the mix, you are the one isolated. For those few, you are truly my friends – thank you!

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