About The Power And Control Wheel

Improving lives after narcissistic abuse

We’re here for you.

If you’re going through narcissistic abuse — whether that’s parental alienation, coercive control, family scapegoating, workplace abuse, or something you’re still trying to find words for — you’ve found somewhere that understands.

This is a coaching and education service. We help you make sense of what’s happened, rebuild your strength, and find a way forward.


Who we support

  • Parents being kept from their children — parental alienation
  • Survivors of coercive control and intimate partner abuse
  • Adults recovering from a narcissistic parent
  • Grandparents cut off from their grandchildren
  • Targets of workplace bullying and abuse
  • People dealing with spiritual or community abuse
  • Family scapegoats

How we can help

  • One-to-one coaching and support
  • A free clarity call — no commitment, just a conversation
  • Education and resources to help you understand what’s happened
  • In-person support groups — coming soon across the UK

Book a free call

No forms. No waiting list. Just a conversation with someone who understands.

Email us or call anytime

Sometimes writing it down is the first step. Say as little as you like, everything you share is confidential, unless we have a legal or safeguarding duty to act.

0333 242 5348 support@thepowerandcontrolwheel.co.uk

Rear view mirror showing I will not be abused written in dust on a car window

I will not be abused!

Not just a statement. A position. A decision. And the goal of every piece of work done here.

78%

of narcissistic abuse survivors experience significant trauma symptoms — including C-PTSD, anxiety and depression.
Source: Authorea, 2025

Not recognised by UK health services.

Narcissistic abuse is not recognised as a clinical condition by UK health services or mental health nursing — leaving most survivors without proper support.
Source: PubMed, 2019

Recovery is possible.

With the right trauma-informed support, survivors rebuild their sense of self, their confidence, and their lives. You do not have to do this alone.


If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

PACW Support Line: 0333 242 5348 | National Domestic Abuse Helpline (women): 0808 2000 247 (free, 24 hours)  |  Men’s Advice Line: 0808 801 0327 | Galop (LGBTQ+) 0800 999 5428 | Samaritans: 116 123 | NHS 111 |  Victim Support 08 08 16 89 111

USA — 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline | National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233