Somatic Trauma-Informed Coaching

Education and Support for Narcissistic Abuse, Parental Alienation & Family Trauma

UK and International Support

Welcome to The Power and Control Wheel – a trauma-informed space for survivors of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation, family scapegoating, intimate partner abuse, institutional betrayal, and high-conflict trauma.

I’m Kevin Webb – an internationally recognised Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, educator, narcissistic abuse and alienated parent survivor, and alienated adult child . I work with people across the UK and globally through Zoom, and in-person and online group sessions.

I know this narcissistic abuse world first-hand.

To report abuse, safely get in touch with:

• UK Police.UK
• USA National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

‘Abuse’ is about power and control, not Gender.

As a Gen X alienated adult child, a former Golden Child turned scapegoat, and a survivor of coercive control, workplace narcissism, family legal trauma, and friendship group betrayal, I’ve lived through it. And I’ve turned that experience into a recovery resource for others.

Are You Experiencing This?

• Constant invalidation from a narcissistic parent or ex-partner
• Being “cut off” from your children with no clear explanation
• Smeared by friends, family, professionals hearing one side
• Workplace bullying that mirrors your childhood trauma
• Feeling unsafe even in support groups or therapeutic spaces
• Being gaslit, scapegoated, isolated, or stalked
• Trying to explain your pain to professionals who don’t get it

If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone — and you’re not overreacting. You’re experiencing an imbalance of power – the often subtle abuse by power and control dynamics.

ENQUIRIES: info@thepowerandcontrolwheel.co.uk

This Isn’t Just “Family Conflict” — It’s Abuse

“Parental Alienation” is not a parenting issue. It’s a form of emotional and psychological abuse. In fact, it appears directly on the Power and Control Wheel as “using the children” — a key tactic of coercive control.

The Family Justice Council has already made this clear: treat this as domestic abuse. The courts might not always listen. But I will.

You deserve support from someone who understands the patterns of narcissistic abuse, attachment trauma, and trauma-informed recovery — not someone who tells you to “just move on.”

‘Separated parents do not have a right to spend time with their children’. The UK Gov ‘Parental Rights and Responsibilities’

Somatic Trauma-Informed Coaching Support for narcissist abuse:

✅ Support for parents, survivors, and professionals
✅ Awareness and training for staff and frontline workers
✅ Bookable talks and workshops (in-person or online)

What Makes This Platform Different

I don’t just talk about trauma — I’ve been through it.

In 2017, facing the trauma after decades of narcissistic abuse, I received the European Social Funds National Award for my work helping economically inactive, traumatised, and disaffected adults rebuild their lives — through my former company All About Music Ltd, supported by the Welsh Council for Voluntary Action and registered with DWP and Careers Wales.

Today, I support people from all walks of life, worldwide, through one-to-one somatic trauma coaching, recovery tools, education, and safe meetups.

You CAN survive, recover – and still have a fulfilling and peaceful life.

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Why ‘The Power and Control Wheel’?

The Wheel explains the real tactics of abuse — emotional control, minimising, isolation, using children, financial control, and more. These tactics apply to:

• Parental Alienation
• Scapegoating in families
• Workplace abuse and bullying
• Relational trauma and betrayal
• Post-separation coercive control
• Cult-like communities and “flying monkeys”

Understanding the Wheel helps you validate your story, speak to professionals with clarity, and stop internalising the blame.

Abuse is NOT about gender. It’s about power and control. Male or female, young or old — this is about people abusing power. And knowing the Wheel helps you identify it early.

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Safe Support — Informed by Experience

You don’t just need credentials — you need someone who understands what this kind of abuse feels like.

I’m a Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach with lived experience as both an alienated parent and an alienated adult child. I combine professional training with real-world insight, offering trauma-aware, body-centred support to help you feel safe, grounded, and empowered again.

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Be Cautious in Online Spaces

Many well-meaning people turn to social media — especially Facebook — for support. But unmoderated or poorly managed groups can be overwhelming, unsafe, or retraumatising.
There are risks of:

• Conflicting advice from untrained voices
• Smear campaigns and stalking by abusers
• Fake accounts and unmoderated abuse
• Gender wars and ideological battles
• Copyright theft or legal risks in ongoing cases
• Untrained people who mean well

There are good YouTube channels and co-dependency education groups out there — but be cautious. Oversharing online can make you more vulnerable.

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You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

I also work with local and national services. I’ve delivered awareness presentations on narcissistic abuse and parental alienation through Westminster Jobcentre Plus and other Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) platforms.
There is free and voluntary support available — especially if you are struggling with employment, housing, or finances as a result of this kind of abuse.

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Ready to Start Reclaiming Your Life?

If any of this resonates with you, I invite you to connect.
You can book a free introductory call — or explore somatic coaching sessions that meet you where you are.

You deserve safe, boundaried, informed support.

I’m led by my a faith in the Lord Jesus, my saviour. I truly believe evil is real, things in our world are changing, and Truth of the Word overcomes this evil. We wrestle not with flesh and blood, but the powers and principalities of this world.

Educational Support for Narcissistic Abuse, Alienation & Coercive Control

This is not a clinical service — it’s an educational platform for real-world support.
You won’t be labelled “vulnerable,” and you won’t be under anyone’s care plan. This is for those who want to understand, recover from, and rise above narcissistic abuse and coercive control — through evidence-based insight and trauma-informed tools.

Whether you’re navigating parental alienation, workplace bullying, family scapegoating, or domestic abuse, this site exists to support your understanding and help you take back your life.

I’ve lived it — and I’ve worked in it. After stepping away from a national UK charity that focused on parental alienation, I now offer independent, survivor-led education and coaching. I bring that lived experience and professional insight directly to you, your organisation, or your team.

If you’re looking for affordable educational support, trauma-informed workshops, or a speaker who understands the real impact of narcissistic abuse — this is the place to start.

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Need someone to help your staff understand narcissistic abuse and family-based coercive control?
I provide workshops, talks, and one-to-one coaching sessions to help individuals and teams recognise the signs, support survivors, and prevent further harm.