The ‘Clarity Call’

Thirty minutes. Professional guidance. Questions answered. One session.

30 minute confidential call.

Schedule a time that works for you. Thirty minutes, one to one, to talk through your situation and get professional insight and guidance — within scope of practice. You come with your questions. You leave with clarity.

Is this you?

Someone has been controlling your life. Not always with shouting. Not always with hitting. With something quieter — and much harder to explain to anyone who wasn’t there.

They controlled the money. Who you saw. Where you went. Your phone. Your conversations. You felt something was wrong long before you could explain it. You reacted – as one would – now you’re ‘abusive’, dangerous.

They made the rules — and when you broke them, there were consequences. Sometimes explosive. Sometimes just a look. Maybe a threat – the kids, leaving you. Threat of suicide. A shame. Obligation. God.

They told you it didn’t happen. That you remembered it wrong. That you were too sensitive. Your fault. Accused you, but they did it – DARVO.

They used people against you. Triangulated. Isolated. And when you asked for help — the people and systems that should have protected you didn’t.

Some of you can’t see your children. You watch them pulling away and there’s nothing you can do.

Some of you grew up in this. Always the problem. Never enough. Estranged from your other parent. Quietly falling apart while holding everything together.

Some of you gave everything — and are only now seeing it was never equal. You lost your children – and yourself – completely.

You are not paranoid. You are not dramatic. You are not the problem. The person who did it knew exactly what they were doing.

What it costs

£9.95 — a minimum. If you are in a position to contribute more, you are welcome to. Anything above the minimum helps keep this service running and accessible.

  • UK calls are from a private number
  • Overseas calls are on Zoom (installation not necessary)
  • You choose the time and day — no surprise call-backs

Payment is required to confirm your booking. If you have concerns about payment showing on a shared bank statement, email support@thepowerandcontrolwheel.co.uk before booking — we’ll arrange your call privately and safely.

The Clarity Call

This is 30 minutes with a qualified coach. You bring your situation. You get professional insight, guidance and clarity — within scope of practice.

Legal advice is not available here. This is not therapy or counselling. What it is: a structured conversation with someone qualified to help you understand what has happened, name it accurately, and identify what your options are.

You might leave with a word for what has been done to you. You might leave with one clear next step. You might leave knowing you are not going crazy — and that it has been seen.

Or if you just need to be heard, call free on 0333 242 5348

Confidentiality

Everything shared stays confidential — within the limits of the law.

Information will only ever be shared if there is an immediate risk of serious harm, a court or coroner’s order, or a disclosure involving terrorism or FGM. Where possible, this will be discussed first.

These calls are not medical or clinical and do not affect medical records. Your data is held securely and never shared.

If you can’t book or call safely, email support@thepowerandcontrolwheel.co.uk

If you are in immediate danger, call 999.

PACW Support Line: 0333 242 5348 | National Domestic Abuse Helpline (women): 0808 2000 247 (free, 24 hours)  |  Men’s Advice Line: 0808 801 0327 | Galop (LGBTQ+) 0800 999 5428 | Samaritans: 116 123 | NHS 111 |  Victim Support 08 08 16 89 111

USA — 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline | National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233